English, Other

The first, most important thing to know is that I am actively polyamorous, with no intention of nor interest in changing that, ever. I am an eclectic, eccentric, independant thinker. I accept no dogma; I neither give blind obediance to anything, nor do I refuse to believe in anything. I do not assume that the new is better than the old, nor the reverse. I believe every person, idea, or event should be judged on merit, not on whether it has "always (or never) been done that way", or is endorsed by some alleged "expert" or "authority". I love life, and people; I believe that fun is sacred.

Virgo

Stocky

5' 9 (1.75 m)

Blue

Caucasian, Other

No

No

Eyes

Other

Brown

Cat, Bird

College Degree

Retired

Retired

Challenger of social norms

$15,000USD To $29,999USD

With Roomate(s), With Pet(s)

Friends Come Over Occasionally

No

No

Brain

Friendly, Comedic, Flirtatious, Outgoing, Dark, Strange

Reading, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Games, Dining, Travel, Cooking, Cars, Camping, Computers

Hanging Out With Friends, Partying, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Reading A Book, Playing Video Games, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

Any date where, once you get comfortable enough to really talk (and you do), you both feel like you've known each other forever; wherever fun is had, and attraction is mutual.

Friendly, Cool, Raunchy, Obscure, Goofy, A Flirt

Spiritual But Not Religious

On Holidays

Liberal

- To change the Western world's assumption that all legitimate relationships have to be monogamous.
- To love as many worthy people as I can, as deeply & for as long as I can.
- To make conservatives realize that compassion, a sound environment, & tolerance are in their own best interests, & liberals realize there's nothing wrong with honestly-earned wealth or self-defense, and all of them understand that freedom is only real if we grant it even to people & ideas we don't like.
- To make the world a more ****positive & a more just, less overpopulated place.
- To put an end to all forms of intolerant fundamentalism.

But mostly, to help my friends live happier lives, and do so myself at the same time.

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Obscure, Raunchy

News, Cartoons, Documentaries, Dramas, Movies, Sports

Action, Science Fiction, Drama, Animation, Adult

Country, Rock, Metal, Electronic, Pop, Classical, Jazz, Soul, Folk

Auto-biography, Biography, Comic, Fantasy, History, Mystery, Political, Satire, Science, Science Fiction

- discussing polyamory (ethical NON-monogamy)
- reading
- movies
- - singing
- cooking
- subverting people's assumptions about society, **** politics, religion, & relationships
- spending time with friends
- ****(hey, let's be honest, here!)
- well-done TV
- listening to/singing along with recorded music (a separate issue from singing by myself)
- travel (when I can afford it)
- computer games
- museums (non-abstract art, archeology, natural history)
- socio-politically critical stand up comedy (like George Carlin, Chris Rock, Bill Maher, etc)
- learning about new inventions/gadgets/discoveries
- chocolate

Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great Skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Oddities, Spontaneity, Power, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness

Relationships from "friends with benefits" to "long-term lover" to "co-spouse in an open multipartner marriage."

A mind that is *truly* open, without being irrational or gullible. A kind, patient heart. A big sense of fun, in bed & everywhere else. Polyamory (ethical nonmonogamy). Something resembling a reasonable degree of emotional health. Highly ****positive attitudes. Mutual attraction in both mind & body. Healthy passion. Someone(s) who can not only accept me as I am, but *appreciate* me as I am.

Date, Intimate, Committed